Hatcher wedding crest: engraved wreath with crown, a script H at its center

we're tying the knot!

Andrew and Jacob sharing a kiss in black tie, black and white photograph
10.02.2027  ·  INDIANAPOLIS, IN

Andrew & Jacob

October Second · Two Thousand Twenty-Seven · Indianapolis

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Chapter One

our story


Andrew and Jacob forehead to forehead at golden hour, black and white
where it all began

how we met

Every love story starts somewhere — ours began with a first date neither of us wanted to end. What started as one evening turned into every evening, and somewhere along the way, two lives quietly became one.

building a life

A 1924 house with a century of stories, two cats with opinions about everything, a garden that keeps us humble, and a shared belief that home is wherever we're together. We've filled the years with dinners out, trips near and far, and the kind of everyday moments that turn out to be the big ones.

Andrew and Jacob seated together in silk and florals, holding hands, black and white
forever wedding date
The proposal: down on one knee beneath draped fabric and string lights, black and white
the moment he asked
Posed portrait beneath the engagement arch moments later, black and white
he said yes!

the proposal

Beneath draped fabric and twinkling lights, one of us asked and the other said yes — and now here we are, asking the people we love most to stand with us as we make it official.

The Celebration

the evening


Candlelit dinner table beneath white draping and chandeliers in the garden, black and white
the long table
Lounge seating under string lights on the deck, black and white
the backyard, transformed
  • 5:30
    PM

    Guests Arrive

    A full hour to find a seat, find a drink, and find your people — the bar opens right away.

  • 6:30
    PM

    The Ceremony

    Short, sweet, and guaranteed to include at least one happy tear.

  • 7:00
    PM

    Champagne & Cocktails

    Golden-hour drinks and hors d'oeuvres under the string lights.

  • 7:30
    PM

    Dinner at Sundown

    A long table, candlelight taking over as the sun sets, and toasts — long ones encouraged.

  • 9:00
    PM

    Dancing

    Until the candles burn down.

Dress Code

Black tie — dress to the nines and feel free to try to outshine the grooms. The celebration is outdoors on grass and a deck, so choose footwear that can handle both. Heels, loafers, something fabulous — kindly leave the sneakers at home.

With Gratitude

registry


Your presence on October 2nd is the only gift we need. But if you'd like to spoil us anyway, we're saving for a honeymoon instead of things — here's what your generosity becomes:

Buy the grooms a drink

Two glasses of champagne, somewhere with a view we'll never forget.

A couples massage

Because planning a backyard wedding is its own workout.

Dinner to remember

The long, candlelit kind — multiple courses, zero rush.

An adventure

An excursion we'll still be telling stories about at our tenth anniversary.

One more night

Extending the honeymoon by a night before real life resumes.

The "just because" fund

For whatever the trip surprises us with along the way.

Contribute to the Honeymoon

From Out of Town

travel and stay


Getting Here

Flying In

Indianapolis International Airport (IND) is about 25 minutes from the celebration. Most major carriers fly direct from both coasts.

Rideshares from the airport are easy and run about $30–40.

Staying

Where to Sleep

We'll be reserving a hotel block downtown, a short ride from Irvington — details to come with your invitation.

Downtown Indy and Mass Ave also have plenty of charming options if you'd like to make a weekend of it.

The Night Of

Getting Around

The ceremony and reception are both at our home in Irvington, on Indianapolis' historic east side. Street parking is available nearby.

We'd gently suggest a rideshare home — the champagne will be flowing.

welcome!

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